I always assumed that everyone with RLS has difficulty with being in close proximity to partners or pets.
I usually ended up sleeping in the guest room 6 nights of the week because I couldn't handle sleeping beside my wife. My legs would be too intense. It was even worse when our cat was sleeping at the bottom of the bed by my feet.
When watching TV, holding hands was not an option. If my wife put her arm around me or held my hand, I'd almost go through the ceiling.
I also found that when sitting that I couldn't put my own hands in my lap. That would often trigger a reaction. I was especially careful on airplanes to keep my hands to my sides.
Does anyone have a similar experience? I never thought until now that this may just be something that affected me?
David
Does your RLS increase with human contact?
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I never noticed anything about having my hands in a certain position,but certainly the close proximity bit will strike a chord with all rls-ers.
The memory foam mattress helps lessen the disturbance for a partner but doesn't do much for the sufferer who feels the need to 'flail' about but can't for fear of waking a partner. This is a pressure in itself and so I think our symptoms are easier dealt with when sleeping alone. This is no comfort for those of us who want to share our bed.
And yes, pets are just as bad. My cat befriended my husband because I couldn't bear for it to sit in my lap.
However decent medication has been a great help to me even tho I am up out of bed for a spell each night, tho this is not cos of rls symptoms but because of insomnia and possible a bad habit.
And as for watching tv and holding hands...... not really an option, even when well medicated.
The memory foam mattress helps lessen the disturbance for a partner but doesn't do much for the sufferer who feels the need to 'flail' about but can't for fear of waking a partner. This is a pressure in itself and so I think our symptoms are easier dealt with when sleeping alone. This is no comfort for those of us who want to share our bed.
And yes, pets are just as bad. My cat befriended my husband because I couldn't bear for it to sit in my lap.
However decent medication has been a great help to me even tho I am up out of bed for a spell each night, tho this is not cos of rls symptoms but because of insomnia and possible a bad habit.
And as for watching tv and holding hands...... not really an option, even when well medicated.
Betty
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David moved this to the 'Relationship' section.
Betty
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